We would like to thank you for coming to our wedding. We understand that travelling all the way to San Francisco constitutes a significant financial endeavor, and for many of you - especially those coming from abroad - the flights and hotel costs will be quite extensive.
Because of this, we wouldn't like you to spend any extra money on us. Use that money by getting a better connecting flight or an extra hotel night in San Francisco. We are extremely grateful to have you with us on this joyous occasion, and that's all we care about.
Once again, please don't bring gifts. We are planning to leave for our honeymoon right after the wedding, so we wouldn't be able to bring them with us anyway. Just show up and party with us :)